Don't forget that in the states, "Lolita" (the movie) is just gaining distribution! (Maybe as a literary teacher, I link the sexual problems of americans to the decreasing numbers of people who have read Henry Miller;) Personally, I don't know enough about my own love life to think I could say anything too directive (or at least not without a healthy amount of delimiting) to others about their affairs, but I do at least believe that the miracles of love and lust overcome much more than age to occur... will