>I learned a long time ago that it´s better to just say things the >way that you feel them only if you know what you're going to say before you start to talk. >And for being Zen... I try When I was around five or six years old I remember waking up Saturday mornings so happy all I could do was lie in bed and squirm and laugh into my pillow because I was so happy. I was so happy yet I couldn't tell anyone how I felt. A couple years ago before I really started reading and writing I used to sit at a piano and play whatever I felt like. I couldn't, and still can't, read music so I just played my own mutilated melodies. sometimes we behave in a Zen manner with out knowing it I don't know. I felt I had to say that -Carl _______________________________________________________________ Get Free Email and Do More On The Web. Visit http://www.msn.com