'... I work with sexually abused boys ...' That doesn’t impress me, Mark. Any more than does my own seventy years on this planet. (Since you ask.) But in the course of that relatively long life I too have 'worked with' - to use your own rather pompous phrase - a great many of the sexually abused. Not just boys - girls & men & women too. I think I know how most of them would feel about someone who hopes to introduce a moment of hush by mentioning his own high calling - quite irrelevantly - into an enjoyable bar room squabble between two dry-drunk writers. (It's what most of them do most of the time anyway - certainly in this corner of the world.) Scottie B.