Oh I don't know about relationships. I really don't. I don't know normal from not normal. Who's to say. But the problem with this holden searching is that this holden is not gonna show up. You know why? Holden doesn't even know we're crazy about him. And that's part of the allure. He's like oblivious to the fact that he's desirable. I mean I have this picture of him in my mind, how he'd be, how he would be reading some book at some corner of the bookstore, he would be the kind of guy who wouldn't be wearing a walkman, he'd say sorry to you if he accidentally bumped you ...oh what thoughts ....that's the kind of guy he'd be. i don't know about john lennon. i like his songs though, but there's something about him and yoko that i cannot comprehend. phoebe > i'm a female who loves holden. sadly, this is a > little bit of a problem. my > love for holden and my search for holden-esque males > has all but precluded > actual relationships. i'm pretty sure that this is > neither normal nor > healthy. any feedback? > > linny > > ps. similar problem with john lennon > __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Talk to your friends online with Yahoo! Messenger. http://messenger.yahoo.com