Re: Dirty Trick

the.tourist@excite.com
Wed, 10 Feb 1999 14:48:32 -0800 (PST)

Reading all about being a teenager is, for me--a twenty-one-year-old--really
sort of amusing.  Please don't think I take your plight lightly, at least
any more lightly than you will in a year or two.  I'm so close to my teenage
years, and I feel so protective of the angry passionate idealism of
adolescence (having two teenage siblings) that I can't help but smile in
admiration of your suffering.  Sort of the way we admire Jesus' suffering,
or Holden's.  

I simply can't agree with Camille's sort of nihilistic view of growing up,
because I'm living proof that it's not true.  Here's the skinny, I think.
At least, this is how I've got by, and continue to get by:

Find something you like to do, and do it.  Find someone you like to be with,
and be with him or her.  Everything else is peripheral.

Maybe grades and after-school jobs and SATs are important to you; only make
certain that your priorities are really your own.

Jim wrote:  

> Just don't get married young.

Hallelujah!  I christen thee Saint Jim.  
--Brendan




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