Reading all about being a teenager is, for me--a twenty-one-year-old--really sort of amusing. Please don't think I take your plight lightly, at least any more lightly than you will in a year or two. I'm so close to my teenage years, and I feel so protective of the angry passionate idealism of adolescence (having two teenage siblings) that I can't help but smile in admiration of your suffering. Sort of the way we admire Jesus' suffering, or Holden's. I simply can't agree with Camille's sort of nihilistic view of growing up, because I'm living proof that it's not true. Here's the skinny, I think. At least, this is how I've got by, and continue to get by: Find something you like to do, and do it. Find someone you like to be with, and be with him or her. Everything else is peripheral. Maybe grades and after-school jobs and SATs are important to you; only make certain that your priorities are really your own. Jim wrote: > Just don't get married young. Hallelujah! I christen thee Saint Jim. --Brendan _______________________________________________________ Get your free, private email at http://mail.excite.com/