In a message dated 98-01-12 16:30:11 EST, you write: << Xerxes (? another pseudonym ?) then complains that I offend him in referring to `yellow faces'. Would it help if I freely admitted to my own being a dull, pinkish grey ? Are the Japanese really such a tender people & their culture so exiguous that when someone speaks of oriental rubbish they feel crushed ? >> I am sorta new to the group, but in my oppinion, you need to Watch It!! If your original post was posted jokingly, I think that It is redeamable, although not altogether appropriate...but this...now that Xerxes has taken offense at your post (rightfully) you take her offense as an offense as if her being upset with you is reason for you to be upset with her. The above comment, to me seem very disrespectful to a culture that you obviously know very litttle about. Please choose your comments much more carefully in the future