Thank you for the last email. Yes, you are, once again, absolutely right. Obviously, I should have taken my *own* advice re letting things sit awhile in a drawer or outbox before clicking on *send.* My last intention was to displace responsibilities on to others, when they truly are my own responsibilities. Or, to cause any pain, especially. (It has been a crazy week.) I know I need a long, good rest. I am going to now close this, and try, like dear Franny , to fall "into a deep, dreamless sleep." --Bruce