Re: Psychology of a hype

Sam Rosenthal (sam.rosenthal@ucop.edu)
Fri, 08 Aug 1997 09:14:10 -0800 

A woman of words. She makes up in
puissance what she lacks in pussy.


>>
>> I'm afraid I don't see the connection between what I said and those "mens"
>> magazines.
>
>
>Its simple. throughout histry, and especially concerning about women/men
>issues, women have been placed in these pedstal roles that require us to
>do very and sundry things, and still be perfect. While I don't advoated
>*that*, what I have seen is that while *some* men say "yes, this is true,
>womens media is raping htem blindless" these same men have no problem
>going to their store and buying playboy/hustler what have you. See the
>contradiction. WHile your telling your gf that she "shouldnt wear makeup"
>or "she shouldn't worry abot who hshe is, because you love her just the
>way she is", by buying such mags gives her the illusion that your lying
>(cos if she was so damn wonderful why would you be buying htese magazines
>in the first place.
>
>> What I was talking about was how those "beauty" magazines give
>> advice like "Act like you don't know he exists, even if you're really madly
>> in love with him" etc. I disagree with that kind of tactic.  I have this
>> thing for honesty.
>
>hahaha...see my comment below.
>
>> Aw heck, Malcs already said this stuff, and better.
>
>Well gosh beave, its called reading my mail in order that its sent. And I
>didn't see Malcs mail till soemthing like 25 messages down.
>
>While malcs said it more coherently <stereotype> he's not
>female</stereotype> and I doubt he can be speaking from expierence such as
>I did.
>
>
>> Btw, my gf IS 6' tall (which I don't like) and I beg her every day not to
>> put on any goddam makeup.  Can't stand the stuff.
>
>First off, what do you have against women 6' tall? I am also 6' tall.
>Secondly, you *dont* like her being tall, you *dont* like or dont *want*
>her to read female magazines, and you *dont* like her to wear makeup. So,
>why are you dating her if you *dont* like so much already? And this is not
>being honest here bub, hate to break it to you.
>
>While *you* maynot like the fact that she wears makeup, she probably wears
>it because *she* feels that it makes her looks good, and no matter WHAT
>you say, its HER opinion that matters way and above you.
>
>Me thinks you got a control issue going on. If you are so hot for honesty,
>why don't you let the girl have some rope instead of pulling her leash in
>so quick. And also, your giving her the EXACT same message that she *isnt*
>okay by controlling or telling her what she can and can not do.
>
>
>Lisa M. Rabey
>http://www.simunye.com
>Coming to a URL near you
>***************************
>A man of words. He makes up in
>diction what he lacks in dick. -China Blue