Re: Psychology of a hype

Lisa M. Rabey (simunye@pacbell.net)
Fri, 08 Aug 1997 16:56:59 -0700

Why don't you start doing something creative other then copying something else?


At 09:14 AM 8/8/97 -0800, you wrote:
>A woman of words. She makes up in
>puissance what she lacks in pussy.
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>>> I'm afraid I don't see the connection between what I said and those "mens"
>>> magazines.
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>>Its simple. throughout histry, and especially concerning about women/men
>>issues, women have been placed in these pedstal roles that require us to
>>do very and sundry things, and still be perfect. While I don't advoated
>>*that*, what I have seen is that while *some* men say "yes, this is true,
>>womens media is raping htem blindless" these same men have no problem
>>going to their store and buying playboy/hustler what have you. See the
>>contradiction. WHile your telling your gf that she "shouldnt wear makeup"
>>or "she shouldn't worry abot who hshe is, because you love her just the
>>way she is", by buying such mags gives her the illusion that your lying
>>(cos if she was so damn wonderful why would you be buying htese magazines
>>in the first place.
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>>> What I was talking about was how those "beauty" magazines give
>>> advice like "Act like you don't know he exists, even if you're really madly
>>> in love with him" etc. I disagree with that kind of tactic.  I have this
>>> thing for honesty.
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>>hahaha...see my comment below.
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>>> Aw heck, Malcs already said this stuff, and better.
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>>Well gosh beave, its called reading my mail in order that its sent. And I
>>didn't see Malcs mail till soemthing like 25 messages down.
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>>While malcs said it more coherently <stereotype> he's not
>>female</stereotype> and I doubt he can be speaking from expierence such as
>>I did.
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>>> Btw, my gf IS 6' tall (which I don't like) and I beg her every day not to
>>> put on any goddam makeup.  Can't stand the stuff.
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>>First off, what do you have against women 6' tall? I am also 6' tall.
>>Secondly, you *dont* like her being tall, you *dont* like or dont *want*
>>her to read female magazines, and you *dont* like her to wear makeup. So,
>>why are you dating her if you *dont* like so much already? And this is not
>>being honest here bub, hate to break it to you.
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>>While *you* maynot like the fact that she wears makeup, she probably wears
>>it because *she* feels that it makes her looks good, and no matter WHAT
>>you say, its HER opinion that matters way and above you.
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>>Me thinks you got a control issue going on. If you are so hot for honesty,
>>why don't you let the girl have some rope instead of pulling her leash in
>>so quick. And also, your giving her the EXACT same message that she *isnt*
>>okay by controlling or telling her what she can and can not do.
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>>Lisa M. Rabey
>>http://www.simunye.com
>>Coming to a URL near you
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>>A man of words. He makes up in
>>diction what he lacks in dick. -China Blue
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