>ps - this proposal/wedding/honeymoon thing is quite amusing - although I >agree with rod :) it does seem like an attempt to get a date with a >feminist. but hey - it's a great gene pool this bananafish list. Oh you kids today...always thinking that all anybody wants is sex. I already AM a feminist (and a Camille Paglia feminist at that) and have been one for the past twelve years (which was when I started taking women's studies courses) or my whole life, however you choose to look at it. So a fellow feminist advertises the only criteria she needs to consider marrying a man and I bite at the bait. Have we all lost our sense of humor? We've already taken it backchannel anyway. Malcolm