Hello Tim, forever the gentle host, with a kind word for even those who seek to surreptitiously slip in. . . At 11:39 AM 8/7/98 -0500, you wrote: >There is a principle that ought to be taught in Reclusiveness 101, which is >that when you let down your drawbridge, you leave yourself open not only to >hurt, but (worse, for a recluse) to public exposure. I can't imagine that >Salinger was able to open his life to someone, *a writer*, no less, without >at least imagining that she might eventually pop his bubble of silence. > Much as it must be obvious, I think the one bit at least where Hapworth is revelatory about our man in seclusion is where he talks about Seymour's early blooming sensuality (also, now that I come to think of it, alluded to in Teddy - well, okay, in Teddy it is not Seymour that he is talking about!). . . I mean, he does seem susceptible, as almost all of us are, to the ways of the flesh - remember even Betty Eppes sent him some rather - I think the word she used was - 'alluring' photographs before he agreed to meet her. Also a self-avowed _writer_ by the way. . . Our man does seem to relish the idea of acting as the patron saint of young, debatably _beautiful_ women. . . (Maybe he feels that he can act as the - alley oops! - CITR for them, the poor, naive writers needing protection from the big bad world of publishing, eh?) The pattern is, to my mind at least, rather distinctive. Now, not for a moment am I deriding it or finding it objectionable (or even suggesting, however tenuously or remotely, that he's some kind of a profligate philanderer, or a sex-fiend for Chrissakes!) just that it seems to be a part of his personality. He seems congenitally, almost compulsively, to be blind to all thoughts of the potential public exposures vis-a-vis these women. Perhaps he thinks that he's being discerning as hell - for all we know, he may well be; perhaps these are only two exceptions in the recent past to have been so invited. . . In fact, I'd go so far out on a limb as to suggest that Betty Eppes blew her chances. After all a single man living a hermit existence does need companionship, doesn't he? I of course say all this in the time hallowed traditions of idle speculation and gossip - pure and unadulterated wind baggery! But, to come to your point, yes, I think the whole exercise _is_ fraught with such potential, but, then, in the past, at least, people close to him have been more sensitive towards his, what has been called, almost pathological need for privacy. > >> DYLAN: I must have identified with him. > >Oy.... To quote from Paul Simon's "A Simple Desultory Philippic (Or How I >Was Robert McNamara'd Into Submission)": >[Sung through the nose, with Dylan-style harmonica interposed throughout.] > >I don't know why, but this popped into my head when I read the interview >excerpt, which made me laugh out loud. Hmmmmm! I think of the same song, through some strange hard wiring in my memory cells I think, whenever I use the word 'desultory'! And, Tim, may I venture as much as to add that it may have been the very same reason for you too, because I did use the word in my last message that you responded to - and then there was Dylan! These two word associations are enough to spur one on this song, I think! In fact, I had once earlier mentioned on the list, when the songs-where-Salinger-references-are-made thread was going on, that I had always been convinced, through a flawed memory of course, that Salinger also figured in it. The lyrics use to go somewhat on the lines of the following: I have been Jerry Salingered Joseph Hellered, I have been Douglas Adamed And Bob Dylaned I have been Roger Watered And Cohened till I am blind I have been Paul Simoned And John Lennoned . . . Whew! What a lotta names. (Hi Will and Malcs, I may not speak much on the list but I lurk all right - always a pleasure to read you two, and all the others!) And, to end on some more trivia - I remember reading a complaint from Simon in his early days (actually it may well just have been an attribution in the kind of pop-psy one loves to indulge in: "he must have felt" etc.) that he resented feeling overshadowed by the more famous Dylan. In a kinda recent Dylan interview (or perhaps a not so recent one; but one that I either read or re-read recently), he acknowledges Simon as having written some great songs. Big praise this, coming from him. Butt with you never can tell. As his Dad used to say. . . Sonny still in the midst of a hot and humid summer, waiting for the long delayed rains!