Re: Me and my macaroni dream is so unreal

Car Land Er Son (lost_hopes@hotmail.com)
Sun, 08 Aug 1999 22:26:05 -0400 (EDT) 

>Good.  That's a good point of view for 16.  When you stop being 16 (and 
>many
>of us don't do that until we hit at least 30 :) ) it'll become clear that 
>the
>quickest way to be disillusioned with relationships is to expect too much
>from them.



     The quickest way to end a dream is to let the dream get in the way of 
reality, causing it to never to happen.

       You can't have something unless you can see yourself with it.
       However, just because you see yourself with something, or someone, 
doesn't mean you'll reach it.


>SHEESH I could reallllly run with this one :).




           RUN RUN RUN             he he
>


>On the woman's side, I've most often seen them put off by men who "make 
>them
>their religion," because they're a bit uncomfortable up there on a 
>pedestal,



          I would never tell a woman that she is my religion.
I don't think I would even realize the woman I'm with as my religion.
       The religious part of our relationship would be communal.  We would 
each believe in each other and what we each do, or do not do, for each 
other.  Love has little pieces-parts to it no one can explain.  
Cosmic-Love-Fetishes, in a way, that hold a relationship together 
inadvertently.



>If not, they'll jump into the relationship with legs
>wide open simply because you're a boost to their ego.  After not too long,
>however, they'll lose respect for you.

              SEE ABOVE



>And you'll resent her for being, well, herself :)  In other words, not a
>goddess.

When I say "religion", I don't mean I'll worship her.  I will believe in 
her.  Belief is one of the most important things in a relationship because 
it encompasses trust, respect, aw, and love, among other numerous aspects.




>The best way to go into relationships is to see her for who she is,
you for
>who you are, and for the two of you to be best friends.




      Simplified a little, eh?

         That's too basic of a statement, but it is true.






           The word "religion" mean so much.



appreciation is always available.


                       -Carl




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