At the risk of sounding shamelessly as though I'm giggling nervously, and quivering in my boots (both of which I AM!), the following is spoken like a true Scot(tie): > > Anyway, why all this demand for kindness? It's frightfully bad > for one. The soul strengthens & flourishes in a chill climate. > I'm sure my own cheerful equanimity is largely thanks to all > the unkind treatment I've received over the years - not least > on this list. I'm endlessly grateful. > > Scottie B. > > ...which is why I, for one, give frequent silent thanks for the man's continued acid test on this list. Cheers, Paul