In a message dated 8/14/99 2:20:47 AM Eastern Daylight Time, Hotbuns200@aol.com writes: << We all have different brains, requiring different amounts of Prozac, and there's no changing that. The only thing I CAN do is get on the Postal Service's case for losing my shoebox-full-of-shit-life for 3 weeks. - Hotbuns (Adam) >> Ach. There are a lot of reasons to feel that way that really are out of your control. If someone you love dies on you, if your parents get divorced...lots of reasons. And there's no use arguing with the person feeling that way, cause when you get the details you think, "Yeah, I'd feel that way too in that situation." So it depends on who you are and what's happened to you. But at the same time, it's your life, and there will come a point where you're going to have to choose it or stay where you are emotionally. If you really are grieving over something, give yourself time. But not the rest of your life. If your whole life's a shitbox from this point on to the end, no one's to blame but you. Jim