>Yeah, but Meredith, Holden had issues...serious psychological issues...too. Boy, did he. Not the most honest chap, and personally that is a quality I look for. You know, I never was all that attracted to Holden as a love interest (beside the fact that he isn't real). My heart goes out to him, but he never made me all tingly. Zooey, on the other hand - Zooey would be the kind I'd flip for. Or I'd just wait for Charles to grow up. I'm not above proposing to a five year old - I've done it before. >The real problem is that most men aren't men, they're still boys, and few >have ever examined the contents of their own hearts. > >That's what YOU'RE there for :) Yeah, and feed and change them, pick out their clothes, and any other tasks they might not be ready for yet. Come on, Jim. It may be true that women can help OPEN their hearts, but we sure as hell can't do much more than that, no matter how hard we try. No one else can sort through the 52-card-pickup of another person's heart. We can listen and try to understand. The examining is up to the owner of the heart. Elizabeth