Re: Burning Pain

Akane574@cs.com
Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:46:14 -0500 (EST)

In a message dated 11/5/99 4:24:58 PM Pacific Standard Time, 
facethecrowd@hotmail.com writes:

> And Lauren, I am also a child of divorced parents.  My fatehr tells me 
>  stories about how he saw my alcoholic mother with a strange man at the 
movie 
> 
>  theatre a month after they divorced.  This must have been hard for him.  
>  What hurt us was the fact that my father hated my mother and mother hated 
my 
> 
>  father.  They couldn't speak with each other.  When I was in Grade seven 
and 
> 
>  eight, I was sure that my father was goingto kill us kids because of the 
>  alimony payments.  Everyone gets a little fucked up from a divorce.  
Dozens 
>  of eggs get cracked.  It fucking sucks, in other words.  But the party 
>  responsible has to ensure that these damages are kept to a minimum.  I 
have 
>  plans and so does she.  She's an independent person but being loved helps 
>  her and it does me, too.  I'm sorry I brought this up.
>  
don't be so blind 
it isn't as simple as "keeping the damages to a minimum"
-Lauren-