Emily wrote: "I get kind of irritated when people say that they have accomplished something great because of God. If you have created something beautiful or accomplished something tremendous don't be modest and say that you owe it all to God. People need to understand that they are responsible for what they create." I see what you're saying here, but God and religion and all these questions aren't necessarily tied up in an AA 12-step-like program are they? I believe in God, that much I know. But I hold myself responsible. It's the idea of free will. I don't think I'm controlled by God, but I do believe that the idea of a "God" is, in fact, a source of strength that doesn't necessarily detract from a person's autonomy. It also doesn't facilitate a lack of inner-strength or belief in one's self. I believe in myself as much as I believe in God. I am responsible for my shortcomings and, as for taking all the credits for my triumphs, well, I honestly don't know how this would serve my self-interest, anyway. Don't be irritated if I thank God for my accomplishments, it's not really a matter of denying myself any amount of pride or joy, but a way of appreciating the fact that I had the opportunity, and that I am who I am, that I am here, and that I can have the pleasure of seeing what I have done. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sure, religion can be a crutch you use when your balance seems off, or it can be a check for you to use when you think you've got the balance down. And it can be a lot of other things, too. So, what do we know? "As if you could kill time without injuring eternity." --H.D. Thoreau ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com