Subject: RE: I'm telling mom! and Sean ...
From: horanp (horanp@kenyon.edu)
Date: Thu Aug 09 2001 - 08:44:20 GMT
Zaz and fish,
>The first is obviously bad, the second is almost never if you do it for the
>right reasons, like love or friendship
>or fun or excitement. Not out of guilt or fear of being left alone. (I mean,
>you KNEW that, right? Pete?)
Yes, I know that having sex for those reasons can be good. If you'll
kindly, though, respect the adherence I have to my Catholic faith...I'm not
as fervent as many others I've met, but there are some points I tend to
always follow.
>I get the feeling that you mean that sex is an evil thing, just as
>excessive drinking. This is an insult to sex and people having it, as i've
>experienced it.
Whoa, hold on there. Evil is a big strong word. The only things I really
call evil are maybe Klan members and Skeletore. Sex is NOT evil, I just
have yet to realize the true goodness and fulfilling aspects of it that
everyone keeps talking about. As someone who's experienced it, you
should know that you can't just TELL someone how great sex is, no
matter how well your syntax.
>That is really such a BS, i mean all those dance partners you have,
>CAN'T be thinking of it like that, right?
Haha zaz. It's hard in college to get someone to speak intelligently
about the subject. Again, I don't sneer nor am I disgusted by those who
do it a lot (no pun intended), but I do question their motives.
>Sorry to have to say this to you and I wouldn't react to it
>if you weren't 5000 km's away but you probably will. From
>almost first hand experience I can tell you that it's likely
>that the first time aren't gonna be very smooth, but very clumsy
>and embarrassing.
It's far, far less comforting for this advice to come from someone who is
my age. Thanks zaz.
I suppose my point is that if I wanted to have sex I would have trouble
making a decision as to why or with whom. Scenario I don't want: have
sex, ejaculating prematurally, feel gross and thoughtless the sex day,
never speak to other person comfortably again. Perhaps I'm a
pessimist, but perhaps also I just want to be sure that I'm doing it for
the right reasons with the right person.
>Scottie wrote:
>>> It took my aging brain a minute to realise that Dead Pan Pete
>>> was giving us his old three card trick.
>
>Hey! You never explained this trick!? :-)
Yes, Scottie. Enlighten me, I'm intrigued.
Pete.
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