>
>     When I raised this topic before, everyone hustled away
>     like shocked Puritans, thanking God they had never been
>     so tested & piously denying any regret, such as I felt,
>     at having missed what still seems to me one of the great
>     defining experiences of being a man. 
>
>
When Scottie wrote this I had to take a deep breath...maybe war is a 
way someone of his generation might define being a man, but I don't 
define manhood in terms of war. Yes, I was raised to do so, and yes, 
the two men I loved most on this planet were WWII vets and I learned 
about their war experiences in detail, but NO, they never taught me 
being in a war was good or about being a good man. And yes, I did 
teach them that the hope for the future was young people who 
understand that war solves nothing.
You want a defining experience? Write a poem...help someone...but 
making old men feel superior and more powerful because young people 
die killing each other is just a stupid fantasy. There's nothing, 
nothing romantic or identifying about fighting war. Not for right or 
wrong reasons, not for any reasons does the death and destruction of 
war satisfy any reasonable thinker's idea of maturation. When humans 
understand this simple point, we'll improve. Some think there will 
always be war, but we on this Salinger list know to respect brilliant 
and less typical thinkers. I think humans can evolve beyond using 
conflict, beyond a simple sense of winners and losers to define 
themselves creatively and peaceably. It's bullwah when someone says 
war made them feel really alive or defined a true moment of 
courage...that's just hollywood illusion. Facing death and creating 
hurt doesn't make one alive, it makes one human, and less human than 
those I hope we will become, will
PS: I did wonder however if bleak ending of "The Inverted Forest" is 
linked to Salinger's difficulties at Hurtgen though.
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