lesley wrote: >putting on a hat with flaps >is also a way of going back to mummy and evokes lots of infant "security >and protection type memories." Yep... did anyone ever go through the "Holden as caul child" thing? It's all about defense mechanisms... something to use to protect yourself. Also, the flaps covered his ears. 'Hear no evil...' -emily ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com