Re: Burning Pain
Face Inthecrowd (facethecrowd@hotmail.com)
Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:52:49 -0500 (EST)
Okay Lauren, you can't pull a non sequiteur on me like that, tell me what
you would do if you were your parents when they got divorced. What wrongs
would you make right, besides the separation from your dad? Please tell me
as much detail as possible.
>From: Akane574@cs.com
>Reply-To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu
>To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu
>Subject: Re: Burning Pain
>Date: Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:46:14 -0500 (EST)
>
>In a message dated 11/5/99 4:24:58 PM Pacific Standard Time,
>facethecrowd@hotmail.com writes:
>
> > And Lauren, I am also a child of divorced parents. My fatehr tells me
> > stories about how he saw my alcoholic mother with a strange man at the
>movie
> >
> > theatre a month after they divorced. This must have been hard for him.
> > What hurt us was the fact that my father hated my mother and mother
>hated
>my
> >
> > father. They couldn't speak with each other. When I was in Grade
>seven
>and
> >
> > eight, I was sure that my father was goingto kill us kids because of
>the
> > alimony payments. Everyone gets a little fucked up from a divorce.
>Dozens
> > of eggs get cracked. It fucking sucks, in other words. But the party
> > responsible has to ensure that these damages are kept to a minimum. I
>have
> > plans and so does she. She's an independent person but being loved
>helps
> > her and it does me, too. I'm sorry I brought this up.
> >
>don't be so blind
>it isn't as simple as "keeping the damages to a minimum"
>-Lauren-
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