Re: Burning Pain
Face Inthecrowd (facethecrowd@hotmail.com)
Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:53:56 -0500 (EST)
I was about 11 when my parents got divorced, how old were you?
>From: Akane574@cs.com
>Reply-To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu
>To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu
>Subject: Re: Burning Pain
>Date: Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:46:14 -0500 (EST)
>
>In a message dated 11/5/99 4:24:58 PM Pacific Standard Time,
>facethecrowd@hotmail.com writes:
>
> > And Lauren, I am also a child of divorced parents. My fatehr tells me
> > stories about how he saw my alcoholic mother with a strange man at the
>movie
> >
> > theatre a month after they divorced. This must have been hard for him.
> > What hurt us was the fact that my father hated my mother and mother
>hated
>my
> >
> > father. They couldn't speak with each other. When I was in Grade
>seven
>and
> >
> > eight, I was sure that my father was goingto kill us kids because of
>the
> > alimony payments. Everyone gets a little fucked up from a divorce.
>Dozens
> > of eggs get cracked. It fucking sucks, in other words. But the party
> > responsible has to ensure that these damages are kept to a minimum. I
>have
> > plans and so does she. She's an independent person but being loved
>helps
> > her and it does me, too. I'm sorry I brought this up.
> >
>don't be so blind
>it isn't as simple as "keeping the damages to a minimum"
>-Lauren-
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