I was about 11 when my parents got divorced, how old were you? >From: Akane574@cs.com >Reply-To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu >To: bananafish@lists.nyu.edu >Subject: Re: Burning Pain >Date: Fri, 05 Nov 1999 19:46:14 -0500 (EST) > >In a message dated 11/5/99 4:24:58 PM Pacific Standard Time, >facethecrowd@hotmail.com writes: > > > And Lauren, I am also a child of divorced parents. My fatehr tells me > > stories about how he saw my alcoholic mother with a strange man at the >movie > > > > theatre a month after they divorced. This must have been hard for him. > > What hurt us was the fact that my father hated my mother and mother >hated >my > > > > father. They couldn't speak with each other. When I was in Grade >seven >and > > > > eight, I was sure that my father was goingto kill us kids because of >the > > alimony payments. Everyone gets a little fucked up from a divorce. >Dozens > > of eggs get cracked. It fucking sucks, in other words. But the party > > responsible has to ensure that these damages are kept to a minimum. I >have > > plans and so does she. She's an independent person but being loved >helps > > her and it does me, too. I'm sorry I brought this up. > > >don't be so blind >it isn't as simple as "keeping the damages to a minimum" >-Lauren- ______________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free Email at http://www.hotmail.com