> I'm damned sure there are many, many loving > step parents who have made all the difference > in this wide world to their adopted children. > And there must be SOME children who are glad > their parents separated. (Though, at a purely > anecdotal level I can't think of any that I've > known personally .) > > Regarding the SOME children who are glad their parents separated- I know two, very personally. One was well aware at the age of eleven that things were better when her dad moved out of her house- and she still loved (and still does love) him. She was, thankfully, mature enough at that age to realize it was a change for the better. Her home life was quieter and more peaceful. It took the other a while to realize and I think that truthfully all do realize sooner or later that it was usually a good decision on their parents' part to throw in the towel, instead of drudging through the muck of an unhappy marriage. Anyone with enough maturity and reason will eventually recognize this. It may be hard, but sometimes it's just better. Love, Robbie ___________________________________________________________________ Get the Internet just the way you want it. Free software, free e-mail, and free Internet access for a month! Try Juno Web: http://dl.www.juno.com/dynoget/tagj.